Khyati Buch, Author at uae_coaching

Your life is exactly what you have created

You may be struggling to get what you want in your personal and professional life.

Things keep on happening to you and not always what you say you want

> It happened to me with my business where I could not get past a certain number each year

> It happened with my relationships where they kept falling apart every few years

Can you relate?

What if it was YOU self sabotaging your own life?

(One belief at a time)

Over the last 14 years coaching here are a few beliefs that have come up regularly from getting my clients to be curious and me going to full detective mode : )

✓   I am not good enough
✓   Relationships are hard
✓   Leadership is hard
✓   I am an imposter
✓   Life is unfair

Can you relate?

The universe works in mysterious ways. It has a way of backing what you say up with lots of evidence.

If for example you believe you are not good enough then universe will give you events and people to highlight this about you. It could come in any number of forms.

It’s job is to highlight and back up your belief and story.

It shows you externally what you are saying about yourself internally.

Giving your more evidence to back that limiting belief up until you consciously work to change it.

When you understand and work on your conditioning
(The story you have about yourself and your limiting beliefs)
You WILL become a better owner, leader, spouse and parent.

Isn’t that what you SAY you want?

Remember I, and my team of coaches are here to support you. DM me ‘BELIEFS’ and will share you an activity that will help you.

PS – It’s always great to learn more and to keep growing.
Have you listened to the Podcast series called Diary of a CEO?
Listen to episode 154 and let me know your thoughts

Who do you want to be?

Getting to the next level personally and professionally can feel uncomfortable.

You could be tempted to give in and revert to the tried and tested

—The same thoughts
—The same actions

Know this…

What got you where you are now is no longer enough to get you where you say you want to go

Read that again and process it (breath)

In simple terms, you have to raise your standards in order to get the results you want

A different way of thinking, different actions to challenge the status quo. Being happy to step outside the comfort zone plays a big part.

>Yes, you will feel fear

>Yes, you may feel like an imposter

>Yes, you may even find it lonely as people who are used to you in one way make comments or distance themselves from the ‘new you’

This is normal.
It is a marker that my most successful clients have gone through to get the better leadership position or to step up as an entrepreneur or to get better meaningful connections in their personal lives.

Unsure what to do first?
Ask yourself these questions

Who do you want to be?
(thanks to my long term client Russell for that reflective question)

What standards are no longer serving me and are preventing me from being that person?

What has keeping them cost me in the past? What will it cost me in the future if I keep them

What new standard or beliefs do I need to welcome into my life?

What will honouring those (consistently) do to my life?

What obstacles and challenges must I be aware of as I embark on raising my standards?

What will I see, hear, feel when I overcome these and get the (insert – new position, better connection, feeling of fulfilment?)

Close your eyes and breath and smile at number 6. Take a mental photo. Isn’t it worth it?

Every great leader started with doubts. My clients often struggled at the start.

Check out the wonderful feelings when you will get to the next level in your journey:

You have got this.

Keep believing and keep growing. I am excited at who you will become and the impact you will make.

Author: Khyati Buch

Your life is exactly what you have created

Who do you want to be?

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